Studies indicate that we have a natural desire to mix with like-minded individuals.
The interview process for Masonic membership has been formed and fine-tuned over centuries to fully ensure that any candidate for Lodge membership not only acts, but indeed thinks in the same way as the rest of the existing Lodge members.
Just like when we were younger, as adults we need to feel a secure attachment to other adults. It is comforting for us to know that someone will be consistently available, especially in time of physical or emotional needs and it’s gratifying to know that they are already in your circle of friends.
Masons will; listen to each other, care about each other’s needs and desires, exhibit sympathy, show an interest in each other’s skills, hobbies and background and perhaps most importantly, share openly and not be judgemental.
If a Mason feels that he personally is unable to assist a Brother in need, then there are specialists within each Lodge to turn to who specialise in; Mentoring, Charity, Family Support, Spirituality or simply Inclusiveness.
New Friends
With so many like-minded individuals in a room together, a newly made Mason will find himself in an environment where he can easily make a number of new friends.